Introduction by David DeAngelo

It’s taken me a long time to figure out all of the things that you’re about learn. I’ve spent years on this stuff.

This book is meant to be used like an encyclopedia. It’s meant to be a REFERENCE, not a novel. The best way to use it is to read and find all of the parts that you like and note all of the ideas, skills, and techniques that you would like to work on and improve. Then take those sections and either write them down or print them so you can review them and practice. Success with women isn’t like success with learning to use a light switch.

Success with women is more like success with learning to play a musical instrument. It takes practice. At first, none of it makes any sense. Sometimes it seems as though all of your practice isn’t making a difference. But if you keep at it, eventually you’ll be playing songs. And then you’ll be writing songs. Next thing you know, you’ve become a master.

So take this book and use it as a workbook. Come back to it often. Reread the parts that you want to learn and integrate. And most importantly, DON’T STOP READING UNTIL YOU’RE DOING IT.

Many people make the mistake of reading this book and then saying, “I know that stuff” before they’ve mastered the information through their experience. Don’t make this mistake yourself.